There are a few things in life that I will never understand no matter how hard I try. I'm not talking about things like how electricity works or how Facebook makes money without charging people to use it. I mean things that people I know do. Even I do some of these things and I don't know why. I guess I don't mean people I know, either. Okay, people in general do these things and I don't understand why. That's better.
Number 1. I'll never understand why couples break up and get back together. I've done this. My ex and I broke up like 37 and a half times and we kept getting back together. It's not like I thought everything was fixed a week after we broke up... so why would I get back with him? Honestly, people. If you break up once, it's not going to work. There was a reason for that break up and you should just accept it and leave it alone. Most breakups end badly; usually the separated couple will trash talk each other really hard. So why do they get back together? I just don't get it, but that's just me. If someone wants to get back with the person who hurt them just to get hurt again, that's their business.
Number 2. I'll never understand the need to be right about everything. On more than one occasion I have argued with my friends because I think I'm right and someone else thinks they're right. I don't really see why it matters. If you're wrong just admit that you're wrong. And even if you're right, there's no need to rub it in someones face. Just let it go because it's not like anyone really cares. Honestly, if two people are fighting over being right, the person who wins shouldn't make the other person feel bad about themselves. I'm sure I've been mean to someone after winning an argument, but that doesn't mean that I think it's okay. I don't. It's not okay to make someone feel terrible just because you were right and they were wrong about something as simple as a shirt logo.
Number 3. I'll never understand why people want to hurt someone else's feelings. I'm not going to stereotype this, but it's usually people who think they're better than everyone else. If they're so much better than everyone, why not act like the better person and be nice. When I think of someone as being better than me, I imagine someone who is nice to everyone all the time and helps whoever needs it. But these people will just say the meanest things to people for no reason. If I ever hurt someone else's feelings for no reason, I feel absolutely awful about it to the point where I make myself sick. I know that I've probably hurt some people's feelings in my lifetime, and if I have I am truly sorry, but just because I've done it doesn't make it anymore okay. It doesn't make you cool, it makes you a terrible person.
Number 4. I'll never understand why people will let other people run over them. I will do anything for someone who needs help, but if it ever gets to the point where they don't need help and they just want me to do everything for them, that's where I draw the line. That point is where I label a person as a piece of crap in my mind. There is no reason to just let people cater to your needs when you don't really need help. No one really knows the problems that the people around them face, so why do people act like their problems are bigger and they need more help? How do they know that the person they're running over isn't going through something way worse? I applaud the people who help others, but I think they should set limits. I think they should stop helping people the minute they don't need it anymore so they won't end up getting run over by someone too lazy to help themselves.
Number 5. I'll never understand the need for drama. I honestly couldn't care less about whose dating who and why that person's best friend is mad about it. I don't care whose pregnant and I don't care who came out. If it's none of my business, I don't care. More people should have that mindset. If no one cared, no one would fight. It's not like it really matters in the end, so why do people make such big deals out of small things? I can't remember the last times that I was actually a part of something dramatic. I'd rather stay away from anything confrontational. Not because I'm scared, but because I find it pointless. Those people who turn everything into drama just need to shut up and leave stuff alone. It doesn't matter if someone is dating your ex boyfriend or if your best friend said something about you when you weren't around. You're just wasting your time. In the end, the only thing you'll get is more wrinkles.
That's just five things that I don't understand. I'm pretty dumb so there's a ton of other things that I don't understand. Maybe other people have logical explanations for these things, but I just can't come up with any for myself. Maybe it's because I have no friends; therefore, I have nothing to understand.
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